Unlocking Self-Worth: My Story of Overcoming Infidelity and Rediscovering Self-Love.

The importance of self-love became clear to me while reflecting on a moment when my life felt unfulfilled. It dawned on me—I wasn't fully embracing self-love. Despite societal emphasis on self-care, I wanted to share my take, stemming from a past of abandonment and choosing relationships out of fear.

I lost someone special due to my unresolved heartbreak and emotional baggage.

Fast forward, enduring betrayal, disrespect, and neglect from my children's father, I clung to the relationship, feeling unworthy due to physical changes after childbirth. I reached a dark point, contemplating ending it all, until my son's cry snapped me back.

After a mental breakdown and returning home, I began rediscovering my self-worth.

Self-love begins with acceptance—understanding that others' actions aren't a measure of our value. Often, we seek external love, forgetting our own needs.

As adults, listening to our inner selves becomes pivotal. It's about fulfilling what we lacked, be it in our childhood or now. This journey is crucial for healing and nurturing better relationships and lifestyles.

My condensed experience aims to uplift you. Remember, you're special despite self-doubts or appearances. You can opt for a different path, beginning from within.

Here are affirmations I crafted to rekindle self-love:

I believe in myself.
Self-care comes naturally to me.
I prioritize myself.
I keep my commitments to myself.
I love and respect myself.
I'm unique and unstoppable.
My well-being is my priority.

Speak these affirmations aloud in front of a mirror; it might spark emotional healing, and that's okay. Life works in your favor. Keep your head held high, beautiful souls!

If you resonate with my journey, customized poster versions of these affirmations are available here.

Your support means a lot, and I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below.

Also you can share some love with me if you feel moved to. I appreciate you for walking this journey with me and I hope you were inspired to be more no matter what you are growing through at the moment. Yes I said growing! Grow and Glow loves!

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